Brightside posted an article entitled “5 Signs You’re Dating and Emotional Psycho,” saying that we only start to realize what happened when we break up and look for the true cause of the breakup.
We don’t want to say psycho, because they just might be dealing with something out of your control and are not ready yet to be in a relationship.
The article goes on with:
To a person like this, you mean exactly as much as a dusty remote control. They found a perfect person who has warm feelings for them, and they control you to satisfy their petty needs. There can be no mutual feelings at all.
… Being with such a person, it’s almost impossible to ask for help. By limiting communications with the world around you, they bind you to them forever by making you feel sure you can survive in this world only by staying with them.
… It’s better to stay away from people who behave like this because they can take away the most precious thing you have: your life.
indeed, to have your dignity trampled on by your romantic partner or to be asked not to hang out with your friends is a sign that something is off. I would recommend that you look for the nearest exit and run like hell.
Eventually, you are going to get fed up. And when you do, all hell breaks loose and she’s going to tell everyone it’s your fault again for not being a man.
What would you do if you were in a situation like this?