How exactly do you flirt on a date?
Some people assume that flirting is all about the words you say to someone to get him interested, but verbal communication is only a part of the whole thing. Women’s body language plays a big role when you’re flirting and here’s why: we get judged initially by the first impression. If you adopt a closed body language, the person subconsciously feels like your vibe is off. Have you ever experienced not liking someone even if he talks and acts nice? His body language is telling you something that your mind can understand but not explain. It’s the same for women. If you’re not feeling comfortable on your date, he will feel it. Considering this, you must make sure your body language is telling the other person the right message.
1. Be Conscious of Where Your Eyes Rest While Talking to Your Date
When we’re with friends, we only look at their eyes because we’re not conscious of anything else except how they react to what we’re saying. When on a date, however, we tend to look at the face of the guy first then our eyes eventually stray. We gaze at his lips, his chest, and his hands.
Where your eyes go when you’re face to face with a guy will tell him if you’re into him or not. The way you gaze at a person tells him what you think of him, and even how you want the date to proceed. Looking at his lips means you’re thinking of kissing him, while looking at his shoes the whole time means you’re not feeling comfortable and you can’t wait for the date to end. He can sense your intentions just by observing the way you move your eyes.
2. Stay in Tune with Your Date’s Mood
If you’ve tried people-watching in the past, you’ve seen this scenario: a girl talks loudly and blabs away while a guy stays quiet. Usually, they’re drinking coffee in a shop somewhere and it’s their first meeting. The woman in this scenario is oblivious to the guy’s mood.
If you want to flirt effectively with a guy, you must be aware of his mood to be able to flirt with him. There’s an easy way to do this. You can simply mimic his actions. If he leans back on his seat, do the same after a minute or so. If he tilts his head, do the same. An onlooker will notice the way you synchronize your movement, while your date will simply feel that you’re ‘getting’ him.
3. Speak Slowly
Girls talk fast when they’re nervous or they don’t talk at all. Showing how nervous you are by blabbing is a turn off. Speak slowly and let him understand what you’re saying. Don’t panic when there are pauses in conversation. Being silent for a while before launching on a new tirade will invite your date to respond to your words. One benefit of speaking at a moderate pace is you can punctuate your words with actions. If you’re talking about what you like about your date, you can touch his hand after you dish out a compliment or you can tuck a stray lock behind your ear.
So these are the few dating tips you have to remember when it comes to Online Dating with a woman