Remember, his marriage must have started well, but failed miserably in A divorce might symbolize an ending to a dream, but it doesn’t mean the feelings are gone. He might still love his ex, but not strongly enough to keep the relationship going. If you accept this fact without much drama, he will feel more comfortable telling you about his feelings. Now is the time to be a friend to your guy. Do not judge him too harshly while he’s still dealing with confusing thoughts.